CLIENT SUCCESS STORIES

Finding myself after a number of failed relationships.

A few years back, a good friend of mine mentioned Delyse and her counselling service to me during a difficult spell in my life. My friend noticed back then I was struggling after having gone through another failed relationship. At that time I ignored the advice, and, I believe, subconsciously, refused to acknowledge this negative pattern I was in. A couple of years went by, and I found myself in a terrible downward spiral, whereby I was involved in dead-end relationships, looking for love in all the wrong places, as they say. At the same time, I lost my father to cancer and yet another romantic relationship ended with me feeling the most angry, sad, confused, jealous feelings I have ever felt. My world was glassed in negativity and I really felt like I was going to crack. I recalled my friend's advice about Delyse, and so I looked her up on the internet and called her right away. My experience with Delyse has been a calming, slow progression, which at first I felt impatient, because I was looking for a quick answer, a quick fix. With her ability to listen intently and the wisdom she imparted enabled me to recognize the triggers which kept me bound in my negative cycle. Delyse is funny, a great listener, and provides gentle reminders during those times the blinders become engaged. At times, I do face the same negative feelings but with Delyse's guidance, I have the ability now to recognize them in advance, sit with it, take things at face value now, and am much more calmer and patient and loving towards myself than I've ever felt. I highly recommend her to anyone seeking help and guidance, as she was a gift to me." D.C. Vancouver,

Changing perspectives

Counselling helped me achieve a new viewpoint and understanding about my life – to cut myself some slack and realize that much of the pressure I find myself under is exerted by me! Delyse was able to help me find the keys to my own Pandora's box and it wasn't frightening at all – a little sad sometimes, but not scary. Delyse helped me recognize things that had influenced my life were 'influences' only but that I still remained in charge of the final decisions. I have experienced renewed enthusiasm about what I can accomplish in relationships that I already enjoy! Ruby Vancouver BC.

Making a Commitment

For years I experienced overwhelming fears that prevented me from making any kind of commitment to my girlfriend. I felt absolutely stuck, continuously getting closer and further apart, closer and further apart…and I felt frustrated…so I decided to get the help of a counselor. Delyse helped me through individual counseling and helped me and my partner in counseling sessions as a couple. With Delyse's help, I was able to make great progress in discovering and experiencing the root cause of my fears and to eventually dissolve my fears to the point where I was able to make the commitment I actually wanted. My girlfriend also discovered fears of her own and was then able to address them! We are now married and truly enjoy a deeper level of intimacy and honesty. We are also new parents to a brand new baby boy! I highly recommend Delyse as a counselor who has the experience, insight and approach to help with the problems of an individual or couple." – Keith, Vancouver, BC

Improving Relationships

Finding a “fit” in the counseling field is much more important than finding a “fit” in a pair of trousers. Delyse proved to be that perfect fit for me. She supported me through one of the most emotionally difficult periods in my life. Her calm and gentle style provided me safe and warm haven, where I was able with her guidance to begin addressing my demons. With continued support I’ve felt able to walk forward, armed with self-awareness, knowledge and tools that have had a positive impact on every relationship in my life. Thank you, Delyse, from the bottom of my heart!CF

Feeling more confidence to be myself.

I started seeing Delyse because I felt that I was leading two distinct and separate lives. Although this pattern caused me a great amount of stress, I found it hard to reconcile and move forward in a positive way. Through the exploration of my past, my thought processes and patterns, and my reactions to every day life occurrences, Delyse is helping me to understand my actions and reactions and be confident in the decisions that I make. Delyse is an open and understanding counsellor who does not forget that she is a human being too. I feel that Delyse relates to my experiences and this makes the process real. Nikki.

Resolving the Past

I first came to work with Delyse when I was struggling to find better ways to communicate with my partner. I also wanted to explore some past relationship patterns with my family members to develop greater clarity about what belongs in the past. Delyse provided a calm, gentle and wise approach to the issues I brought forth. She was superb at being present when intense emotions were evoked within me, and she had a way of helping me to untangle beliefs that were only serving to keep me suffering. Delyse was also able to teach me about seeing things as they really are, and learning to accept what is. Furthermore, she would often recommend books that were relevant to my struggles which I found to be very helpful. My time with her has allowed me to disengage more from old thoughts and beliefs. I find that I am less reactive and more inclined to be gentle and understanding with myself when I either experience intense emotions or conflict with others. I would highly recommend Delyse as a counsellor!" B.A. Clinical Social Worker.